Obituaries

July 1, 1941 to October 15, 2021

KOKOMO - Roberta DeGraaff, 80, Kokomo, passed away Friday evening, Oct 15, at Franciscan Hospital in Lafayette.

Roberta DeGraaff

She was born July 1, 1941, to Edward and Ruth Leman in Francesville, where she attended and graduated from school in 1959. In 1960 she attended Baptist Bible College in Springfield, MO where she met and married Ron DeGraaff, a farm boy from Idaho. They were married in Remington, on June 30, 1961. He survives.

She is also survived by son Scott DeGraaff with wife Tracy in Huntsville, AL, daughter Lynda Cleveland with husband Gary in Jefferson, GA, son Timothy DeGraaff with wife Cynthia in New Albany, and son Rick DeGraaff with wife Jennifer in Kokomo; and by nine grandchildren, five boys and four girls. Survivors also include siblings Gary (Ruth) Leman, David (Elaine) Leman, Daniel (Linda) Leman, Steven (Wanda) Leman, and Sharon (Garry) Cotner.

Two sets of stillborn twins (two girls and two boys), and three brothers have preceded her in death.

As a farm girl, Mrs. DeGraaff had many responsibilities related to the household and younger siblings. She took her first job at VonTobel Hardware in Francesville. After marriage, the couple filled various pastorates in Ohio, Idaho, and Indiana, including Russiaville where they served over 19 years. In addition to raising four children, she worked various secretarial and receptionist positions that included medical and financial offices, but also Evangelical Baptist Missions offices in Kokomo and Indianapolis.
Her family affectionately acknowledges her excellence as wife, mother, housekeeper, and cook (the best cheesy potatoes around). She invited many into her home and delivered many meals to those physically unable. Her love, sacrifice, and prayers will be deeply missed. She left an indelible mark on her family that they will always cherish.

Friends are invited to visit with the family from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, Oct. 19, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home & Crematory, 1315 W. Lincoln Road, Kokomo; and one hour prior to the service Wednesday. The funeral service will be at 1 p.m. Wednesday, Oct. 20, at the funeral home, with Pastor Toph Elkins officiating. Burial will follow in Albright Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to Samaritan Care Givers.

Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.